Parenting: The Challenge

A lot of people talk about things that need to get handled before they can have children. Maybe it's getting rid of debt, or buying a house, or just slowing down at work. The truth is there is really no "right" or "good" time to have kids, you just have to do it. If you keep waiting for that time you will never have kids! Just know that when you bring kids into the world, you will make it work however you do because it will be necessary.

More about: When is the "Right" Time to Have Children

I read an article about parents being afraid that their children are so wrapped up in technology that they are losing their relationship with their kids. They fear that all of their time is consumed by programs on television depicting sex and violence. My question is, why are you afraid? You are the parent and are able to monitor what they are watching and playing. It sounds to me like these parents think the have no control over what their children are exposed to. Maybe they could enforce some rules about how much and what kind of technology they are exposed to.

More about: Parents Afraid of Losing Kids to Technology

Being in the kitchen with your kids is a great way to connect. It may also get your kids interested in foods they would normally not want to even try. Having them involved in the cooking provides opportunities to share family recipes and make sure they are eating healthy. Sure there will be some times that they will have an unhealthy snack but what's important is that they eat well most of the time, not making sure it's not every single price of food they eat. Not only will it give you some valuable time with them, but you will be teaching them skill they will be able to use for a lifetime.

More about: Cook With Your Children

How do you know when a child is old enough to stay home alone? Or how old they should be to go to the mall for the day or walk to school? Not all children achieve the same milestones at the same time. How can you tell when they are ready? A good way to start is asking the "what if" questions. Set up scenarios and ask what they would do in the situation. This will help you decide if they are mature enough to handle the situation. You will gain some insight as to what they can and cannot handle.

More about: When Should Children Get Their Freedom?

It is recommended that children do not watch more than one or two hours of TV per day. For the most part I do agree with this. There are plenty other activities they can do besides TV. I would also advise parents not to have a TV in their childrens' rooms. On the other hand I think some TV is ok, and is great for when parents need a break. There are plenty of educational programs now and you can always pick out a movie instead of a show. Now that there are DVRs you can pick out specific programming that you find would be beneficial to your children when the time comes for TV watching. I think ...

More about: Is TV Parenting Our Children?

Once your child reaches the teen years, they will start to ask for money for activities and to purchase clothes, music and other things. It may be time to start teaching them some money management. Set up a budget for all the things your teen uses or needs that you may find is outside of what you feel they are entitled to. A weekly allowance is a good place to start giving them a set amount for chores done. If you feel that your teen is old enough and can handle a part time job while in school or just for the summer, encourage them to apply. This is a great way for them to learn how to make and ...

More about: Teach Your Teen How to Manage Money

School is coming to an end for the summer. How can you keep your kids occupied and keep them learning during the break? You don't need to schedule every minute of their time while school's out, they will need the break, but giving them opportunities for other activities is a great way to keep them motivated and learning. The library is a great way for them to explore books not required for school. Check out some in your area for workshops and events. Go to the zoo, kids love animals and to learn about them. Check for local clubs in the area geared toward kids, they may be able to go a few times a week which would be fun ...

More about: Keep Kids Busy During the Summer

Are you much of a risk-taker now that you have children? It's not just me anymore that I need to think about. Having a child really changes things in terms of risky behavior. I'm not a fast driver and if I've had a small amount of alcohol, I won't drive. I want to be around for along time for my child and tasking risks just isn't worth it now that he is in my life.

More about: Are You Safer Now That You Have Kids?

You don't need to be strict about your child's weight, but you want them to lead a fit and healthy lifestyle. Have them eating healthy foods. A good way to make that work is to include them in the meal planning. Make sure they are getting exercise. Encourage them to ride a bike with a friend or play a game of tag or basketball, or join them! Limit video games or TV-watching so that they are not sitting around a lot. Instilling these habits will make a difference when they grow into adulthood.

More about: Managing Your Child’s Weight

It can wear on your last nerve, but it doesn't have to be all bad. Within all the fighting and squabbling kids can learn independence and create a mature self-esteem. Parents always want to treat their children equally, but really we should be looking at what's best for each child. When fights arise, don't step in to fix it, guide them to a suitable solution but let them figure it out. Having them left to their own devices to work it out takes you out of the middle and has them learning how to deal with their own issues.

More about: How to handle Sibling Rivalry