Parenting: The Challenge

When your child reaches the teenage years you may have noticed that your relationship has gone through some changes. You may not be as close with them as you once were or really know what’s going on in their lives. How do you stay involved with their life when it seems they don’t want you to be? First be there for them. They are more likely to come to you when they know you will be there for them without judgement or criticism, but just as their parent. be a good listener when they do come to you and have something to share. Wait for them to ask for advice and suggestions, don’t just offer it. They want to be independent and be able to make their own choices. Showing interest in what they are up to and the people they are spending their time with can help with communication and closeness.