Parenting: The Challenge http://www.parentingthechallenge.com Fri, 05 Sep 2008 21:20:58 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.3 en At Home Care Instead of Daycare http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/at-home-care-instead-of-daycare.htm http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/at-home-care-instead-of-daycare.htm#comments Fri, 05 Sep 2008 21:20:58 +0000 admin http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/at-home-care-instead-of-daycare.htm According to this article in the UK 40% of daycare is not good enough for kids. Most of the hits against them are not enough staff, too many kids and no first aid kits. This could pose a good argument for staying at home with your kids. Most daycare services are not cheap and you want your child to be safe, comfortable and have fun while they are there. But if there is a shortage of staff and too many children it can be a disaster. If you intend to put your child in daycare really investigate the center or find in-house establishments that may only take a fewer number of kids.

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Children like to imitate what they hear from others. You’ve got to really pay attention to what you say around them. When they begin to speak, sometimes they will say something that’s different from what they hear. It can be difficult communicating with them. Keep what you say clean and pay attention to what you talk about so you can know what they are exposed to. When they do say something you don’t understand, ask them to repeat it or have them show you what they are talking about.

]]> http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/what-children-hear.htm/feed Fussy Children Become Bullies http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/fussy-children-become-bullies.htm http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/fussy-children-become-bullies.htm#comments Tue, 22 Jul 2008 21:48:14 +0000 admin http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/fussy-children-become-bullies.htm This article talks about a study done on 2000 children from birth to age 13 to find how their temperament as a baby formed the teenage they became. A lot of it points to genetics, but also parenting style. They found that babies who were less moody and more predictable had a very low risk of future behavior problems. It just goes to show that your parenting does indeed make a difference in how your child behaves later on in life.

]]> http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/fussy-children-become-bullies.htm/feed Are Childless Couples Happier? http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/are-childless-couples-happier.htm http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/are-childless-couples-happier.htm#comments Thu, 17 Jul 2008 21:47:13 +0000 admin http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/are-childless-couples-happier.htm In Florida a National Survey of Families and Households was done to find out if those without children were happier than those with. Childless couples showed to be happier. Being a parent is a tough job. I think the reason it seems that childless couples are happier is because they have more time for themselves and don’t have to look after anyone. They have the freedom to do whatever they want whenever they want. As a parent I think having a child is one of the happiest experiences someone can ever have. Even with al of the hard work and not knowing where money will come from. It’s something you can’t ever get until you do it.

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]]> http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/play-with-your-kids.htm/feed When is the "Right" Time to Have Children http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/when-is-the-right-time-to-have-children.htm http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/when-is-the-right-time-to-have-children.htm#comments Wed, 02 Jul 2008 17:08:19 +0000 admin http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/when-is-the-right-time-to-have-children.htm

A lot of people talk about things that need to get handled before they can have children. Maybe it’s getting rid of debt, or buying a house, or just slowing down at work. The truth is there is really no "right" or "good" time to have kids, you just have to do it. If you keep waiting for that time you will never have kids! Just know that when you bring kids into the world, you will make it work however you do because it will be necessary.

]]> http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/when-is-the-right-time-to-have-children.htm/feed Parents Afraid of Losing Kids to Technology http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/parents-afraid-of-losing-kids-to-technology.htm http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/parents-afraid-of-losing-kids-to-technology.htm#comments Tue, 24 Jun 2008 16:36:58 +0000 admin http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/parents-afraid-of-losing-kids-to-technology.htm I read an article about parents being afraid that their children are so wrapped up in technology that they are losing their relationship with their kids. They fear that all of their time is consumed by programs on television depicting sex and violence. My question is, why are you afraid? You are the parent and are able to monitor what they are watching and playing. It sounds to me like these parents think the have no control over what their children are exposed to. Maybe they could enforce some rules about how much and what kind of technology they are exposed to.

]]> http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/parents-afraid-of-losing-kids-to-technology.htm/feed Cook With Your Children http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/cook-with-your-children.htm http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/cook-with-your-children.htm#comments Wed, 18 Jun 2008 16:36:35 +0000 admin http://www.parentingthechallenge.com/cook-with-your-children.htm Being in the kitchen with your kids is a great way to connect. It may also get your kids interested in foods they would normally not want to even try. Having them involved in the cooking provides opportunities to share family recipes and make sure they are eating healthy. Sure there will be some times that they will have an unhealthy snack but what’s important is that they eat well most of the time, not making sure it’s not every single price of food they eat. Not only will it give you some valuable time with them, but you will be teaching them skill they will be able to use for a lifetime.

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How do you know when a child is old enough to stay home alone? Or how old they should be to go to the mall for the day or walk to school? Not all children achieve the same milestones at the same time. How can you tell when they are ready? A good way to start is asking the "what if" questions. Set up scenarios and ask what they would do in the situation. This will help you decide if they are mature enough to handle the situation. You will gain some insight as to what they can and cannot handle.

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