Parenting: The Challenge

Going through a divorce is painful for everyone not just the parents involved. Children need to know that they will still have some solid things in life that won’t change. Assuring them that the divorce is not their fault and that both parents love them is key. There will be changes and if you explain to them what those changes are and how they might be affected they are adaptable. It’s important that you share the facts about the situation without making either parent the “bad guy”. Allow them to share their feelings and upset with you about what is happening. Most of all try and maintain continuity of their daily routines. Co-parenting is no small task but do your best to aim for solutions that work for everyone.